At Moms for Liberty's national summit, a singular focus on anti-trans issues

WASHINGTON, D.C. — Apparently, there is not enough joy to go around, and some "joyful warriors" are upset about, among other things, what they see as their nickname being ripped off.

Joy has become a theme of the Democratic ticket—Vice President Kamala Harris proclaimed herself and running mate Tim Walz "joyful warriors" against their Republican opponents. The conservative parent group Moms for Liberty made a point of attacking the Democrats' use of the phrase during its four-day annual summit over Labor Day weekend in Washington D.C., The Hechinger Report details.

"I want to remind people who are the OG Joyful Warriors," Moms for Liberty co-founder Tina Descovich said Friday evening, ahead of an appearance by Republican presidential nominee Donald J. Trump.    

As a whole, the summit sent dual messages. One cast Moms for Liberty and the broader Republican party as working to appeal across party lines. The other unleashed strikingly vitriolic language about claimed dangers of the Harris-Walz ticket—especially to parents. Leaders made one particular issue—transgender students—the focus of their messaging. Staple concerns of past years, including social emotional learning, DEI initiatives and "inappropriate" books, took a backseat. There was little talk of academics or learning.

Instead, co-founder Tiffany Justice painted schools as predatory, seeking to infect children with ideas about gender that lead them to declare they are nonbinary. And Walz, whose policies as governor of Minnesota are considered LGBTQ+-friendly, was a special target of attack. 

"Tim Walz is, I mean, what a radical, radical bad guy," Justice said in an interview with The Hechinger Report, calling him "anti-parent" and repeating inaccurate portrayals of  Minnesota law as allowing minor children to come to the state for gender-affirming care without their parents' consent and saying that children can be removed from their parents' custody if they disagree with their kids' desire for gender-affirming care. (A Minnesota law gives courts there the ability to intervene temporarily in a custody dispute across state lines when a child cannot obtain care.)

She also raised concerns about what she called "a social contagion that has taken over in our country. It's called rapid onset gender dysphoria," Justice said, referring to a disorder described in a paper published last year in the scientific journal Archives of Sexual Behavior that has since been retracted. 

"There's no such thing as a transgender child. Please quote me on that," she continued. "There are children who are experiencing mental distress and they need kindness and compassion and help to feel comfortable in their own bodies, because no child is born in the wrong body."

Aside from a playful interlude featuring covers of John Mellencamp and Lynyrd Skynyrd that brought attendees clad in sequined MAGA wear and American Flag-inspired fashion to their feet, the event felt less organized—and less joyful—than past years.

Instead, the prevailing tone was one of aggression. The us-versus-them framing is not new. At the first Moms for Liberty summit, in Tampa in 2022, attendees were invited to a well-choreographed unveiling of the alleged dangers facing children in public school—and an urgent call to get involved. The second, in Philadelphia, schooled them in real-time opposition as the extent of protests seemed to surprise attendees doing what they saw as the noble work of moms. This year, many got that this was less about gathering information or learning than rallying around your team. On the cusp of a big election, what could they do to help? How could they recruit more people to defeat a Democratic ticket cast as lethal to their children's well-being—even as they look to be having lots of fun and supporting lunchbox issues like school meals?

"It's crazy what's going on," said one Maryland mom, a first-time attendee who said she has become more active "because I can" since her youngest graduated from high school. "Moms with 5- and 6-year-olds don't have time to fight."

The summit gathered some 600 moms, grandmothers—and a fair number of dads, for whom an in-person appearance from Trump was perhaps the biggest draw. Even though the former president was on stage for nearly an hour, he said little about education, instead repeatedly veering to the subject of immigration regardless of what question Justice asked him. In some of his few comments on schools, he charged without evidence that public schools are aggressively involved in providing gender-affirming care.  

"The transgender thing is incredible," Trump said. "Think of it. Your kid goes to school and comes home a few days later with an operation. The school decides what's going to happen with your child."

Some of Trump's remarks on immigration, meanwhile, focused on the dangers of newcomers to public education. At one point, he alleged that new arrivals bring gangs and disease into schools, and are welcomed warmly while current students are shut out. "They don't even speak English," he said. "It's crazy. And we have our people that aren't going into a classroom. We have students that were there last year that aren't allowed into the school."

Trump also spent time reflecting on the difficulties of being a candidate. When Justice asked Trump for his advice to busy moms considering a run for school board—some of the core work of Moms for Liberty is to encourage members to seek office—his answer was, "Don't do it."

While Justice noted to the crowd that Moms for Liberty endorses candidates only in school board races, she personally endorsed Trump as she concluded her interview. 

Despite the clearly partisan tone of the summit, there was an effort to cross ideological lines to expand support for the Republican ticket ahead of the election. A Friday morning keynote panel featured four women whom Justice said had "chosen to walk away from the Democratic party": Tulsi Gabbard, a former Democratic congresswoman from Hawaii; Texas state Rep. Shawn Thierry, who left the Democratic party in late August; athletic clothing maker and former gymnast Jennifer Sey who has written about how she regrets voting for President Joe Biden; and New York City parent advocate and former Democratic congressional candidate Maud Maron.

Gabbard, who was recently named to be part of Trump's transition team, said the Democratic Party "is no longer the big tent party that welcomes people from all walks of life." She coached attendees on how to approach a person in their circle "who doesn't quite see the truth," and urged them to do so. "Scroll through your phone. Think about the people who may need a little bit of a nudge," she said.

"Who's gonna unite our country?" Gabbard called to the crowd. "We are!"  

This year's summit lacked the hundreds of protesters who were a constant presence at the 2023 event in Philadelphia, spurring a large and visible security detail and barricades at the hotel entrance. By contrast, the streets outside of the JW Marriott in Washington, less than half a mile from the White House, were quiet.

Yet many of the same groups that had gathered to protest Moms for Liberty last year staged a separate counter-event, "Celebration of Reading," on Saturday at the Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Library in downtown Washington. Participants read aloud banned books and gave away nearly 1,000 of them to children and families who arrived in strollers and on foot.

At the same time, several dozen conservative groups, including Moms for Liberty, organized what they said would be the first annual "March for Kids" to "bring awareness to the decline of our educational system and the erosion of parental rights." Originally planned for the National Mall, it was moved at the last minute indoors to the Daughters of the American Revolution Constitution Hall; organizers cited safety concerns. As it got underway, some 300 people populated a hall with a capacity of 3,702.

Meg Simons, digital strategy manager at the progressive advocacy group People for the American Way, said that the strong showing of protestors in Philadelphia so motivated many older members of her 40-year-old organization that they started Grandparents For Truth to counter Moms for Liberty.

Marge Baker, a founding member of the grandparent group, said it bothered her to see Moms for Liberty "out there organizing and trying to claim this mantle of freedom when what they want is the freedom to decide what all parents and children can read." Baker spoke moments before her husband, Robert Banks, was to read aloud "The Lorax," which has been banned in some places for promoting an environmentalist agenda and negatively depicting the logging industry.

Heidi Ross, another grandmother, traveled from Buckeye, Arizona, to help out at the event. "This is my world," she said, holding up a screen shot of her two-year-old granddaughter, Lili. Ross said she has been upset by the rise of school vouchers in her state and the attacks on books. "Children should know about everybody, every family," she said, adding that, "there are different families, even in my Republican neighborhood."

During the Moms for Liberty summit, attendees chatted at booths staffed by representatives of organizations such as Lifewise Academy, which touts a Bible education program for public school students that can be offered during the school day. Other booths plus a strategy session run by lawyers with The Heritage Foundation and Institute for Free Speech offered guidance to parents for fighting the new Biden administration Title IX regulation, which extends protection against sex discrimination to students based on gender identity and sexual orientation. Moms for Liberty helped derail the regulation, at least for now, in 26 states and thousands of schools in other states, a list that is growing by the week.

Julie Womack, head of organizing for Red, Wine & Blue, a national progressive group that helps suburban women organize, hosted an online information event about the new Title IX rules, a panel with parents of trans kids, and is planning a "Troublemaker Training" on Oct. 16 to counter disinformation about transgender individuals. "Many people in real life have very little experience," with transgender individuals, said Womack.  Even parents of transgender youth, she said, admit "they didn't know how to handle it. Well, we are all learning. It is OK to learn. But it is not OK to exclude."

Liz King, who leads the education program for the Leadership Conference on Civil and Human Rights, one of the counter-event's sponsors, said Moms for Liberty is boxing people out rather than being inclusive. As the group's language escalates, she said, "they have resorted to the old canard of fear-mongering."

This all comes at a critical time."One of the questions right now is, 'What does it mean to be a parent?'" said King. "What we see with this organization of Moms for Liberty is a betrayal of the responsibility of parents and an anti-liberty agenda."