What do you appreciate most coming from your students, past or present?
In short, contact. When students take time out of their lives after they are out of my class (whether to stop by and visit or send an email) to tell me what they are up to.
What are some examples of the most memorable way a student has thanked you/shown appreciation in the past?
My kids know that I am coffee-dependent: My school day starts at 7 a.m., and I am proudly Polish. Therefore, I have a collection of coffee mugs from various kids. I have made it a thing in the classroom to use a different mug each day, lining up my mugs along the edge of my podium so everyone knows what day it is. The mugs are meaningful because they reflect that the kids know me/pay attention to me personally. Some of the mugs have funny comments on them.
A few of the kids also reached out via college; I have a couple of certificates of recognition from different universities that were sent to me at kids' requests. Two of them were anonymous; I wish I knew who to thank for them.
Another student brought me a cookie tin filled with homemade treats for the holidays. I cleaned and returned the tin to her after the holidays, jokingly telling her that she needed it back if she was going to refill it next year. She did—despite the fact that she was not my student that year.
Another group of students visited UC last year. They sent me pictures from their trip.
It also matters when kids make a point of inviting me to concerts/performances/games. Sometimes I can't make it, but it matters that my being there matters to them. It's also super cool to see them shine outside of my class.
Lastly, our NHS coordinators have started asking applicants to write a letter to a teacher or coach who has been a mentor to them. I got a few this last week; those letters mean a lot because they are personal and because around this time of year, everyone is done. The kids want the school year to be over, and I wonder why I didn't choose a profession with no work or worries to take home. Those letters are the shot in the arm to get me through the rest of the year joyously.